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Tyler Wakefield's avatar

Beautiful Benjamin, thank you for your inspiring devotion to this work and powerful writing!

I'm noticing myself getting grumpy about something in our professional field, and I'm curious how you're relating to it, and how we might hold this dilemma I'm pointing to wisely.

The term "ontological shift" is now in vogue, which, on one hand is delightful. On the other hand, I'm concerned that we're not engaging this term with humility and respect for the practice, context, and perhaps sacrifice it takes to truly enact and -- more importantly -- sustain such shifts.

More than just protesting its often vague usage (I'm certainly guilty) and being a stickler for words meaning something specific, I'm concerned that in relating to this term casually, we risk convincing ourselves we've "made" such shifts and therefore are now capable of designing more life-affirming systems... when in fact we have mostly had brief, perhaps periodic, experiences of ontological jostling into fresh yet unstable seats of awareness.

You write, "This is what philosophers call an ontological shift — a change at the very root of how we understand reality. And once you feel it, once you really feel it in your bones, you can't go back. You can't unsee the living world. You can't pretend you're separate anymore."

I resonate with this on some level, and yet in my experience (and what I hear from and see in dear friends and colleagues around me), it is SO EASY to snap back to pretending I'm separate. I think I/we DO pretend we're separate all the time, even after such moments of bone-resounding truth. These alternative seats may feel lovely -- like something trustworthy has been accessed. However, it seems to me we are prone to slide out of them just as quickly as we stumble into them, even if those lovely feelings linger.

How could I not snap back when generations of culture, built infrastructure, social infrastructure, and my entire socialization trained me to orient as a separate individual? While plastic, we are also deeply grooved beings. As soon as I return from stretching my ontology from a walk in the forest, months of monastic meditation, or whatever the practice might be, I'm back to a bank account that has my name on it. My money. My Vote. My web3 wallet. My independent choices about where to go, whether my flying around the world is justified, who/what to consume, who/what I'm responsible to.

The environmental context of separation that we swim in is thick! The ontological flexibility, strength, and conditioning needed to move through this tangle without getting stuck is no small, or even large feat. We're talking olympian skill here... we're talking free-soloing 1,000 foot cliff faces without being tethered to what makes us feel comfortable... we're talking enlightenment (depending on which ontological shift we're actually discussing).

It feels way too easy to fool ourselves into thinking our new design opinion is an ontological shift, when it's just a thought that sails past 99% of the design space we still take for granted. If we're not careful, I worry we wind up creating evermore compelling systems that -- just like the systems we're attempting to hospice now --- wind up designing us in return and trapping us in the very ontologies we thought we were escaping from.

Of course, there is work to do and we're not interested in waiting for perfection or pretending there is purity to be found somewhere. I have no issue with anything you're recommending here -- only deep gratitude and inspiration and desire to walk into these unknowns in solidarity.

Yet double binds abound, and I'm here asking for help and perspective from you or anyone feeling inspired: Is there more we could and should be doing to honor what we mean by ontological shift? Is there more we could and should be doing to encode ritual and practice into our emerging tech stack? Etymology tells me it takes sacrifice to actually make something Sacred... what am I/we willing to sacrifice to bring about this Sacred world we speak of?

Yes, let's "be IN the systems but not OF them," but if there's anything I'm clear on, this takes immense, intimate relational devotion to lift and hold each other out OF them. You said it well, "We're remembering that thriving only happens through healthy relationships."

Much love and gratitude!

Kelly Clark's avatar

Thank you, Benjamin! We are starting our own bioregional learning journey in the Great Lake Erie Southern Shore and this will be an excellent article to share and discuss.

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